Suara.com – A sad story comes from singer and former adult magazine model, Gieya Alexandra. He was deeply traumatized by the sexual abuse he experienced as a child.
“I’ve kept this story hidden for decades,” said Gieya Alexandra in a discussion event on mental health in the Kebon Sirih area, Central Jakarta, recently.
Gieya Alexandra (Instagram)
Gieya Alexandra’s inner wound deepened because the perpetrators of sexual harassment came from her closest environment. The indecent acts that befell him also happened more than once.
“That was done by the neighbors themselves, then my friend’s uncle, then it was also done by people who were considered family,” added Gieya Alexandra.
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I still remember clearly in Gieya Alexandra’s memory how the faces of the perpetrators of sexual harassment and the barbaric actions they committed.
Coach Rheo is with Aliando Syarief. (Instagram)
“The image of their faces was still very real. Starting from how they held me, touched me, let me cry, beat me until I was black and blue and I was left completely naked on the floor. That was an extraordinary wound for me,” said Gieya Alexandra .
The trauma of being a victim of sexual harassment also had an impact on Gieya Alexandra’s role as a mother. He became very protective of his children because he was afraid that his children would have the same fate.
“I now have children. So that really becomes one of my fears that makes me and my children too protective. Neighbors even play with my children, it has to be in front of my eyes. I have to see,” said Gieya Alexandra.
Gieya Alexandra made various efforts to recover from the trauma of sexual harassment. One of them is a new model of therapy called Divine Oracular Assistance or DOA which is run by Caezarro Rey Abishur or Coach Rheo.
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“It’s easy to do, just with systematic breathing. But if people usually teach them to inhale, exhale, I’m more towards the point where this breath will affect a person for him to really change. So it’s not just normal breathing without direction, but how can his breath make him release his emotions and have an impact,” explained Coach Rheo.
“This is something new. I have learned a lot from system science, including pseudoscience,” he continued.
It turned out that Coach Rheo’s DOA therapy was starting to bear fruit for Gieya Alexandra. She is no longer afraid when she imagines the faces of the perpetrators of sexual harassment and their actions in the past.
“When I imagine them again, their faces are just Joker’s faces. It’s like grinning like that. Until last night I was still trying to remember their faces, but I don’t feel nervous anymore,” said Gieya Alexandra.
Going forward, Gieya Alexandra is just trying to deepen her desire to get rid of emotions from past traumas so that fear doesn’t come again. “Just give us extra time to explore again,” said Coach Rheo.
