Suara.com – The case of the maltreatment of the child of a tax official, Mario Dandy Satrio, against the child of GP Ansor manager, David, is increasingly being discussed. The name Aagnes, who is suspected of being Dandy’s lover, was also dragged along.
This was because he was suspected of inciting Dandy to become emotional and instigating the persecution. The figure of Agnes then became the spotlight in this case.
Recently, a tweet on social media went viral. The tweet from the Twitter account @ChemtrailsLove states that Agnes has often played victim, even since she was in elementary school.
“Agnes, Agnes is sorry for your mother and father, how come you are too spoiled even though she is only an adopted child. Now her father may be shocked by the fact that the child he loves turns out to be inversely proportional, plus from elementary school, this is the same case as playing the victim,” wrote the netizen in he tweeted.
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This upload immediately went viral and was liked by more than 21 thousand accounts on Twitter. So, what exactly is playing victim and what causes it?
Launching from Psych Central, playing victim or what is also often called victim mentality is when someone feels like a victim in various situations, even when the evidence shows otherwise. It is possible that the person who is playing victim has no control over what happens to them.
Doctor Julie Landry, a clinical psychologist in San Antonio, Texas, said that this victim mentality can develop as a way for individuals to overcome their traumatic feelings.
Landry then explained that there are several things that can make someone have a victim mentality. These include having no control over situations, continuing emotional pain to the point of feeling helpless, betraying someone, using certain substances or alcohol, and asking others for support.
Then, is playing victim a symptom of a mental problem, or just a personality?
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a study in 2020, stated that playing bicim is a personality trait. However, there are also mental conditions with the characteristics of playing victim.
Kondisi mental tersebut di antaranya, borderline personality disorder (BPD), major depressive disorder (MDD), narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), complex post-traumatic stress disorder (CPTSD).
That is the meaning of playing victim and the possibility that causes a victim mentality. What do you think about this? Do you agree that Agnes, who is suspected of being the instigator of David’s beating, is playing the victim?
